I'm not going to blow his phone up and beg for him to talk to me if that's what he thinks. and chat our daily activities..not all the time, but had great conversation with him. Travel. NEVER believe what people tell you, let them show you. He tells me im the one but when he starts getting tired he gives me confidence and reassurence with words that don't feel like a lie. Does liking means close to loving? If anyone is going through this; stop, drop and roll. his job is very demanding and unable to come to see me so I am the one that goes and visits him. I have deleted him now, I just want to know why do they disappear instead of fixing the problem when apparently its his fault that he messed up by going on date with someone else. So, he didn't respond for a while but when he responded he said that I guess i am right that we are not for each other and he tried his best, that he is sad and disappointed, and that he wanted to be the person that I give my love to but he wishes me to find someone who will. I M REALLY CONFUSED how can we both manage. Have I lost him for good? Scorpios like to be in control of the relationship. Why would you wait around for this unstable twit to decide how he's going to yo yo again and how long you'll take it? At first my feelings got hurt and I was quiet. People that get deep into head games need emotional control over someone. My brother is a scorp, a close friend is, I have it as my rising sign, so I catch ,myself holding many of these qualities as well. As you may already know, guys born under any of the water signs tend to be more emotional than men born under any other sign! Unfortunately, this guy tends to throw his anger onto the people he loves most. Should i stay or should i go. Scorpio men are not easy. Please someone tell me what to do about my Scorpio guy best friend ! I am always in doubt about our relationship longevity. Im naturally submissive but im tired of questioning his feelings. I've tried to end it with him, but he doesn't want to let me go. when he shuts down on me and not text me after all I do for him it hurts my feelings and I do talk to him about it but he does not let me know what is going on the reason why he does this. In the beginning, when we first start dating I had told him about a few things that bothered me and he told me 'this feels so breakable'. What does he want from me How would I knw he is lying to me(scorpio) he said he is not over his ex and need time to deal with his feelings. he's working, he is charming but he talk only about sex. So basically breaking up with me. Secondly, even I am dating a scorpio who sometimes withdraws but who cares , I am going to take it until it reaches my threshold and then i will break it off with him, thirdly , as a leo i am prone to displays of pride and arrogance- the fact that I can acknowledge it and try to be a better person in relationships and not let my Leonine shortcomings define me, so if you are dating a Scorpio who can not control husband baser instincts then please ask him you fuck off , life is too short to run behind weirdos, Fourth of all , I am pretty sure that each of you frustrated girls out here are interesting, beautiful and amazing human beings, remember that when you feel like you are being used. Just tell him what he has done wrong and you don't want to keep silent with him because of it. The obvious man to lead it was Le Grange, the only South African who had ever set foot on the South Pole. The guy I like is a Scorpio. Go figure. They would tell me they'd see me and try to say hi but I wouldn't notice them. I am a venus in scorpio and I can vouch for this. I've recently broken up with a Scorpion man. Water signs are emotional, and Scorpios are most sensitive of all. I guess I have to stop being such a Libra (=. Strong, handsome, great personality, warm, kind, friendly, funny, etc. He is very supportive and lovable and caring too. Very strange behavior from a man in his 40's. He doesn't want to work on your relationship - he wants an excuse to end it. My point is, you may think it came out of nowhere, but he has been keeping track, and something tipped the scales. If he tells you he likes or lives you and then disappears, find someone else! I have a way with words as being a Gemini and I am willing to sacrifice some of my freedom to be with this Scorpio. But if the dog finally turned around and bit you then, would you think, simply because it hadn't done so before, that it came out of nowhere? Scorpio intuits the sensitivity behind the facade and becomes intrigued. We had plans to hang out but on the day of he bailed on me and hurt my feelings in doing so. Also, not saying all of you did this, just throwing it out there, but do not, do NOT sleep with him right away. A month or so before meeting, he opened up a lot about his personal life to me, and it felt like I was finally getting to know him as a person. Even i cant meet any boy (friend) without his permission. If you're unclear about what ghosting means, it's when someone you've been seeing disappears from your life, completely and suddenly. They rarely pretend and are very bad at telling lies (and hate when others do so). He sometimes came by my Place to Visit before he went to his Gigs. Instant connection, we see each other daily, even talk about our future. Scorpio Man's Personality and Your Relationship Being with a Scorpio man is as much about loving him as it is about loving yourself. The Bug came by the Bar saw me sitting there smiling at him. Again, as a Capricorn I am secretive and I didnt want it to be something all of our acquaintances knew about. Just checked my words . We have flirted on and off throughout the last few years but never anything serious because we both have been in relationships. I have a ton of gifts I have bought weeks before the break up for he, his daughter etc.. She may give you a clear sign right away that she likes you and you are the perfect man, and may not look directly at you when you are together. This way, it's a little easier to tell if the Scorpio is interested or not. Genuine Confusion Scorpio men are emotional guys. I am a Cancer girl but a very strong personality as well. When a Scorpio man takes you in completely as in loving you you ultimately become their possession until you betray them. While others are mumbling and crumbling and grumbling, he is at his forceful, courageous best. Rated all ups!! I fee like when we fight pieces of me die so when i feel to much its like i push a Button inside me that protects me from further hurt and i become cold and distant. Their fixed, feminine energy can come off as stubborn and reserved, but don't mistake their often quiet and secretive demeanor for passivity! They infer by the expressions of your face what one would call mind readings. It was great singing Backup with that Bug together. He's older too so idk is it possible that he breaks up with someone that he loves and 'never' talk to them again? With Mom's encouragement, we decided to meet in April 2014. I am currently being extremely patient with a Scorpio who is going through some tough times. Give her some space for her to get past the upset. Have a life. He is not interested in a serious relationship and will only stay with you as long as it benefits him. Any sign can date any sign; however, studying synastry can help pinpoint particular strengths and challenges in any partnership. What it takes to keep a Scorpio man interested largely depends on where he's at in development as an individual. then his txts are so short without endearment. Be successful . I refuse to take tesponsibikitu for HIS emotionaly irresponsibility. He has no time to see me so I can't get answers. & i saw him posts in other social app . I don't know if he still likes me. They Detest Dishonesty Your Scorpion partner vehemently detests lies. They have to prove to me and show me that they are who they say they are. If they keep asking, I either lash out because I want them to go away without explaining that I am upset or I pretend that I just don't feel well. While Scorpio men are well known for being guarded and secretive, don't confuse those traits with dishonesty. Please have a spare time to help someone in confusion with scorp man.. be delighted to know some insights.. thank you very much.. Just want to ask for an honest advise. He has difficulty maintaining relationships, and eventually, ghosting is the only recourse he can think of to keep the space needed for himself. This month holds celestial . We have had a serious connection and am amazing attraction together. it was monday and he said cannot because he has work. Even i get scared of me. Being with my Scorpio is like riding a roller coaster.everything feels picture perfect up until. 2. He's angry. Then I get a long reply to my text were he doesn't see us going anywhere in a relationship because I can't communicate and I make funny faces and seem to take him as a joke and not seriously. . Source: Favim. I hope I helped!! then i try to contact him asking whether he only wants me for sexting ? Luv this hub. And yes, Scorpio women are quite similar to us Scorpio men in many things. He is a Scorpio, sweet, caring, thoughtful, listening well, good Manners, a real Love Bug. He a 7 year old Me a 2 year old. He may not have found anything special in you that would make him stay. I hope this isn't the case for anyone, because it says volumes about his lack of compassion for you if he isn't willing to give you closure. One of the things you should never do is bombard him with texts or calls. How do I navigate this relationship, because I do care deeply for him. I also think it's easy to fall for them - at least in my case!!! You have to understand that Scorpios are intense. Is he testing me or just not interested all of a sudden? But it was important for me to tell him that I regret what I said. 1. My friends think I should get an abortion to save myself the heart ache but I could never do that! because both times I had said something that was questioning if I'll leave him he would want to end it first. Cancer in love is shy, responsive, and empathic. THE DAY HIKARI DISAPPEARS!THE DAY, WE SEARCH UNTIL TOMMROW!FAREWELL, TSURUGI . i asked him if ive done anything wrong he said that hE is just busy at work but im getting paranoid coZ he is not acting usual.im getting crazy now.. :(. He wanted to see me then changed his mind.wth. What is this man saying? HubPages is a registered trademark of The Arena Platform, Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. If he has decided to distance himself in preparation to leave you then he is making it easier for you. needless to say it is a long distance relationship on top of that we don't see each other as much as we would like to. Our Connection felt pretty strong like two Magnets something strange was happening. We have had periods of intense sexual conversation and then we lose contact for weeks to months, then one of us will reappear. It was a little confusing but I don't take what people say to heart. Understanding him 2. They tell it all on a website or brood about it. He ignored my calls and texts for days and finally when he did hey back to me he said he can't commit to anything.. 6) Why do you care? Girls, start dating around casually, see what else is out there besides him. This might be caused by problems early on in their lives that have made them insecure about being committed to someone who might not reciprocate. He will be more open and communicative with you. I was almost ready to give up on him until I read this article. I too, fall for themwell, it's really more like tripping down the stairs :). I have known him fr 8 years Best friends that tend to flirt a lot. I think the act of distancing himself is more painful than you realize and it probably takes extreme will to stay away. Such an amazing man and my rock! Well, a couple days ago, he texts me out of the blue "hey wife." Now i know he is so powerful , he is so confidence . I'm very hurt and miss him so much! I cant figure out whats going on. We haven't talked to each other much since. But we can add that if that is who you want, there is no one else that will do. will ask you 100 personal questions but won't tell you much about themselves, can rev from 0 to 100 in a matter of seconds but may let off the gas just as fast (they will likely be the one to determine the speed of a new relationship), when they finally find "The One", they love them with every fiber of their being, can hold a grudge for years but is also capable of deep healing work, tender forgiveness, and bringing dark wounds to the light, will take the time to understand their partner to their core and nurture them accordingly, wants it their way and has a hard time compromising, ignites the spark of a twin flame relationship you'll never forget, although they might instigate many fights within the relationship, they will also fight for the relationship when it needs saving. The difference with Scorpio compared . They need lots of love , attention & affection . Sometimes a hug and affection is of more value than sexual relations. Posted on February 2, the video has amassed 80,000 views. While your crush might be a Scorpio sun, his personality might be influenced by his rising, moon, and Venus signs as well. I will say to the women having troubles however, that if he's disapearing for a WK or more regularly, it really has nothing to do with his sign and waay more to do with you're just not a major priority yet. Take a look into his full natal chart to gain a more accurate understanding. I decided to stop emailing him and just wait for him to think all this through. But I am telling you.. Both of which he said no to. Then you can slowly start to open up and show your more sensitive side. Even feelings of sheer happiness and an unbridled passion are felt immensely by Scorpions. Just because he doesn't tell you when you have hurt or upset him doesn't mean you haven't. 4. It sounds like you are very concerned about pressuring him/scaring him away. I really think it's the arrogance and a Scorpio. What to do when Scorpio man ignores you? Spill His Secrets Scorpios are naturally guarded and secretive. The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers to this website may receive compensation for some links to products and services on this website. Sometime i feel not to have a same sign mate. does he has no respect for me as a human being? He may just be enjoying his alone time, pondering the meaning of life, or pouring himself into his passion projects. I always have a second thought about our relationship. I didn't take him serious. Magnitudes of a difference between each stage. To everyone out there firstly, although I personally love my sunsign and I do think people possess certain core characteristics based on their sunsigns , you have to acknowledge the fact that every individual is complex and not binary ( I.e. That's not easy to swallow. Most of time we have different opinion. He might do the slow fade out, meaning he stops initiating contact and when you reach out to him he takes hours or days to reply. Everything was good very attentive, nice and good listener he acted like everything was fine except for last Sunday something was off he was more irritated and sarcastic especially with his eyes and smirks. So when he's busy "in the zone"; he may not be thinking of you at that time. He is so kind and thoughtful; brutally honest and very open when he is not withdrawn. Good luck all you gals out there. He Keeps Secrets From You Scorpios are secretive. Hi all, i need an advice please about my scorpio man, we were fine for almost 2 months and then i had a strange feeling he was dating someone else. But you need to remember that he needs to show the same concern for you. There are plenty of respectful, loyal, and honest folks born in Scorpio season, just as with any other sign. Im a Capricorn so Im very hurt on the inside but Ill never show it outwardly. He finally texted me this morning, I was starting to wonder if he was doing the #5 thing! I felt like it was out of nowhere. Every day & night he would text me or calling and today nothing. Tsurugi:I'm killed nee-san. Then when they already knew it's sign of love, they trick their mind assuming the object isn't feel the same, again, to avoid disappointment. This is so true! Hi. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 25, 2012: Thank you for your comments, angel115707! A scorpio man is something else. Knowing that you are doing well makes Scorpio man miss you and want to come back. It's where you go out and enjoy yourself. I was hurt because before we started dating he said he was in love with me and wanted to settle down have a family etc. We did, 10 days after she left and it was like we had known each other for years. Also, because he clams up, he'll never feel enough guilt to tell you that he's cheating on you. This is so helpful! I believe that when he withdraws like this and possibilities one, two, and three have been ruled out, it says a lot about his confidence in the relationship. Complex for sure, but no more so than any other sign. I haven't acted clingy at all, and I don't plan on doing so at any point. For example, if a Scorpio starts loving art, that may very easily become his new passion in life. so, i tried and most of our convrsation will go down to sex. Now imagine you're a small child that has just discovered the dog's tail and begins to playfully tug on it. A Scorpio enjoys cinematic and classically romantic dates. He may become moody or withdrawn, which can be difficult to deal with for those who are close to him. 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