I bow to those with deep enough compassion. She had to have felt some pain there. With a train you just stand on the platform and make that sudden, crucial decision to step or jump forward without anyone having the chance to stop you (unless you WANT to be stopped). Jeremy Clarkson is axed as Who Wants To Be A Millionaire? No counseling available in this country? She took care.'. I bet that's exactly what she wanted. It was an awful experience. Registered in England & Wales | 01676637 |. She ended her own life. I`m not a psychologist but that would be my impression. Better to choose death. 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The woman, believed to be in her 20s, was seen lunging into the path of an oncoming No. I've been close enough to the edge that I remember feeling nothing but fear, just being scared to hell, and debilitating sadness. As Cleo said - a permanent solution to a temporary problem. By someone. 6 IRT train at the station at 68th Street and Lexington Avenue at 12:01 P.M. yesterday, transit authorities said. If you think you're experiencing a human rights issue, talk to us in your language. things will always get better especially if you change the way you live. contact the editor here. Watch the full video for more.Connect with Hindustan TimesPress the bell icon on YouTube for all the latest updates from Hindustan TimesLike us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hindustantimesTweet us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/httweetsFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hindustantimes/Find us on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/hindustantimes/Subscribe to Hindustan Times on Telegram: https://t.me/hindustantimes#Mumbai #Train #Rescue CCTV footage from the location shows a woman jumping in front of a moving train in Ghatkopar station in Mumbai. Reply. 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Remove the stigma and try to help society understand it is the same as any other illness, nothing to be ashamed of. We can expect more people to commit suicide if they feel they can't survive in this country. Don't you think that's part of the problem here guys? US firms waiting in the wings read to pump 'billions Parents' fury as schools STILL won't tell them if they are closed tomorrow as teacher strikes continue. There are times when the person is such a low point that death seems the only option. It's simple ease of access. The unidentified victim was pronounced dead at the scene. Of course she didn't. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten, or redistributed. We should never condemn the mentally ill this way because it causes trouble to passengers etc. We are no longer accepting comments on this article. Of course if professionals could have reached this person first the outcome may have been different. It came about a month after a man was hit. My life is more complicated>. If you want to feel preachy you can even require psychological counseling but give them some out of the way place to do it. Describing CCTV footage showing the mother and daughter, Assistant Coroner Ian Wade KC said: Sadly, what we can see is that she gathers Melsadie up in her arms and jumps carefully from the platform and is then struck by the train.. EXCLUSIVE - Revealed: Carol Kirkwood's secret toyboy fianc - 13 years her junior - is a divorced police 'Digital antidepressants' to be rolled out on the NHS as health bosses give eight apps and web-based therapy Do not sell or share my personal information. bass4funk; terruble, you were late 3 times because someone ended their life. Northbound 5 trains are running local from Third Avenue-149th Street to 180th Street. The loco pilot managed to stop the train and both of them escaped with injuries. This was perhaps because, in the back of my mind, I always knew help and support were available. So, after that experience I'm not so keen on excusing those people. Why, of course it is! ( ) A. bad B. badly C. good D . cleo - although I understand what you're trying to say I think you're missing the point that some people are just not in that state of mind to 'stop and think'. When the temperature gets hotter,many people do strange things they would not have done in a normal situation. 2-8-16 Higashi-Kanda She was behind on her rent, etcetera. The act of suicide is not usually selfish becaus ethe victims mindset is beyond that. They also default on life insurance (which I think goes to the company, but not sure on that one). The lives that are always involved, the innocent people that have to suffer because the person wants to go out in style. The service is available 24 hours a day for people who are experiencing feelings of distress or despair, including those which may lead to suicide. As for counselling, this country's culture is built on saving face. 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And quite frankly, here in Japan I have no idea at all how you would go about it. Ms Redmond then brought Melsadie back over the gate to the public area of the platform, before returning up the stairs to the bridge over the platforms. These adverts enable local businesses to get in front of their target audience the local community. Police say although there were no eyewitnesses to the incident, the events were captured by a station security camera. It's going to get worse before it gets better. They charge millions of yen for stoppages, extra work, etc maybe we should look at why it is getting worse and what we can do. I place it on the society that failed to recognize the symptoms of her impending self-destruction (or worse, chose to ignore them), the cultural history of seeing suicide as a viable option to ending one's problems, and the lack of support in general for the prevention of suicide and the need to change this ancient mindset. Then again, she may not have been depressed at all. I saw this on the news this morning, and it was truly horrible. Part of the Daily Mail, The Mail on Sunday & Metro Media Group, She jumped onto tracks atTaplow station with daughter on February 18, 2019. I feel very much sympathy for the woman but after knowing that her family will have to PAY to the train company, (possible all other damages, compensations for other victims? Get real. Her mom went crazy, started shoutingfortunately she stopped her, grabbed her hand and took her away. I mean why would you say that about a dead person unless you were either completely without an ounce of compassion in your heart, socially maladriot, or you knew and hated the person. Add Your Voice to CantaNYC, a Community Chorus! That's truly sad. theres Thousands of Japanese who "dont fit into society" & they are fine with it & Don't care. This article tells us where she died but not where she was from. I think we all have contemplated it at one time or another? I think they should think about others rather be self centered. The NYPD spokeswoman could not confirm the identity or age of the woman who was killed, but did say that criminality is not suspected in the death. Several witnesses told police they saw the woman jump from the edge of the platform and get hit by the train around 5:20 p.m., an NYPD spokeswoman said. Just two days after her eldest son's 10th birthday, the mother-of-two kissed her children goodbye as they went to school and she walked to Slough railway station, the coroner heard on Thursday. Many here seem to think that suicide is a matter of choice as is the means to commit the act. The coroner heard how the religious pair met while they were both living in the Czech Republic, before separately travelling to America and reconnecting. New Delhi: A woman jumped in front of the Delhi Metro train at Model Town Metro station on Saturday and committed suicide. Another deluded individual. The distressed woman leapt in front of a northbound D train as it entered the station near 86th Street shortly before 9 am, according to authorities. I think it is wrong and low class to criticise someone who found that this was the best thing for them. The only selfish people are those who criticised this poor woman. Some subway lines were rerouted. Had police been observing her, they would have approached her because of her behaviour., The coroner said: At this stage, Melsadie is becoming rather frustrated and upset with her. Who "died" and made you the queen of Japanese suicide ethics/morality? "I am going to kill myself, and I am going to make all of you late for work, dates, whatever in the process.". If you have lived throug or witnessed a love one living through the hell of severe mental illness you would know why i say these things. At 6.30am that morning, at which time Melsadie was with her father Leroy Parris, Ms Redmond had checked her bank balance at a garage. Spend some time reading up about mental illness and especially depression. The law is illogical and wrong, because it can make you to use "super glue" ,so to speak, to join each family member together 24/7 for just having peace of mind. I have been late 3 times this month because someone thought to throw themselves in front of a train! Mumbai: Woman commits suicide by jumping in front of a train. For that you are lucky. No, it doesn't happen everyday at all. There has to be a point where we can finally stop writing about the lack of awareness of and help for the mentally ill or emotionally unstable in Japan because someone with enough influence actually decided to do something about it for once. Of course people who witness this are traumatised and i don't think anyone would deny this. CCTV footage from the location shows a woman jumping in front of a moving train in Ghatkopar station in Mumbai. 'She had to be admitted to hospital two weeks after we came home,' said the husband. I'm sure she didn't mean to be knocked back onto the platform when she jumped. I know they are not in their normal state of mind, but still, if one wants to end his/her life it's better to do it quietly and away from people's eyes. We want our comments to be a lively and valuable part of our community - a place where readers can debate and engage with the most important local issues. Please show her and her family some respect. It breaks my heart. Very sad. I doubt if she needs any now. ultimately used her flying corpse as a projectile with which to smash through a shop door with the sole intention of injuring and traumatizing four people inside the store. "fit into society"?! ', 'I did not think she was suffering a relapse at the time although it did not occur to me. The . With 35.000 suicides per year, it is not the lady who had a problem, but the society which is inducing people to suicide. Spend some time reading up about mental illness and especially depression.". Parents as well as educational institutions have a responsibility for the wellfare of their youth, not just their grades. The Japan you do not see everyday up there in the mountains is incredibly stressful. Maybe J-goverment needs to import more U.S. and western Psycologist that is familar with the Japanese culture and approach from a different angle. It is always good to be prepared for this happening to anyone close to you as this is so hard and frustrating to deal with. We talked to BestReviews nutrition expert, Molly Bremer, about her favorite whole grains and how to use them. Those ads you do see are predominantly from local businesses promoting local services. It's a cultural flaw. I've seen suicide, lived with it from someone close and i would never blame them for the hurt it caused me and others. why?". Leighane Melsadie Redmond, 27, had been taken to court over unpaid bills before jumping onto the tracks at Taplow station in Buckinghamshire on February 18, 2019. She needed help, and should have had easy access to it -- no one debates that. In this case I'd bet she didnt want anything more than what she got. By 6pm, CCTV footage showed that Ms Redmond was with Melsadie and she tried to book an Uber toBeaconsfield and made a call to her mother. Kate Oh invites you to a Small Works Group Exhibition for the New York K-Art Festival! The week a train derailment poisoned an entire town in Ohio, the transportation secretary, the man in charge of preventing train derailments, held a press conference attacking White construction . Life had got too much for her and she did the only thing she could think of to put a stop to it. Editors' Code of Practice. |. She died at the scene. Shortly afterwards, Ms Redmond and Melsadie were seen to enter Taplow stationand the pair remained at the station for around 20 minutes. Peopel, pleased educate yourselves on mental illness and what makes a person suicidal and how they are thinking. This site is part of Newsquest's audited local newspaper network. Try thinking how damaged the person is to consider ending their life, not an easy thing to do. I don't know the severity of that woman'situation, so I can't say what pushed her over the edge, but I doubt she had any people she could be open with or even had a shoulder to lean on. A tragedy and a waste of a life. Should donate blood on a regular basis and visit third world poor countries to put life in perspective. We don't know anything about her life I sort of agree that we don't have to critise herBut this happened to my husband many years ago - the guy standing next to him suddently approached the train as it was about to stop and the train hit him in the head. 13, 2011 - 05:52PM JST The inquest heard how the 39-year-old had previously aborted a child - without her religious husband's knowledge - in 2012 after discovering the baby could be born with an abnormality as a side effect of her bipolar medication. Thank You. Counseling is almost never heard of and even mentioning that you have a mental sickness is already a death sentence, people will shun you like the Ebola virus. By Put up the fences and legalize suicide so people will go for a needle rather than a train. When do the clocks change in 2023? The victim was pronounced deceased at the scene. True, suicide is seen as selfish in many parts of the world, but most of those who think this (even myself sometimes) cannot even begin to understand what makes a person contemplate let alone choose such a route. The comments below have been moderated in advance. OMG! Everyone could feel and understand each other as much as they understand themselves and events like this would probably cease to exist. Other people after all have nothing to do with their grief. As a subscriber, you are shown 80% less display advertising when reading our articles. been late to work three times this week because of suicides? Yesterday Mr Yabani said: 'She kept saying 'this country doesn't want me' and 'nobody wants me here. I wouldn't be surprised if some of those injuries were from bone fragments or other parts that came off from the impact. A woman died after jumping in front of a Brooklyn-bound L train Friday night. Female carer who bit off part of a pub landlady's ear during vicious bar brawl is jailed for 14 months. This woman has, through her actions, seriously affected many others. They see, but many if not most times do not register what occurred, they let things go much faster and do not let it get to them. The coroner said: 'At this stage, Melsadie is becoming rather frustrated and upset with her. Steve's right! Steve: you make some excellent points about the ones left behind. I very much doubt that she took her own life so that people would miss their flights from Narita. I wish they talk to me. Her life these past months may have sheer hell for and/or family and she believed that this was the "honourable way out", as the Japanese people believe it to be. Perhaps this is too 'clean' or 'romantic'. Royal Mail worker Zdenka Yabani spiralled downhill after a scan of her unborn daughter revealed the news that her baby was 'small' and could have a facial abnormality. 1. Plus, in Japanese society, past and present, there is NO stigmata on suicide. It seems some people don't understand the meaning of the word 'selfish': lacking consideration for others. Rangers trade Kravtsov, waive Leschyshyn, Giants, Jets fans among most passionate in NFL: report, PIX11 talks with Adam Korsak ahead of NFL Combine, Moose on the Loose: New York basketball is fun again. ( ) A. for B. in C. during D. since. What is wrong wih you people, did you grow up in the 19th century? Everyone here is making very very good points - but then everyone here (I am presuming!) This website and associated newspapers adhere to the Independent Press Standards Organisation's Another sad and quiet tragedy unfolds. The inquest heard that on New Year's Eve, Ghanaian husband Mr Yabani returned from working as a church Minister to find his two young sons alone in the flat. Didnt want anything more than what she got all have nothing to do suicide... 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